three things to ponder
number one: why is it that all the super awkward adolescent boys at bridgeport have super fashionable, tall, pretty girlfriends?
number two: why is it socially unacceptable to wear a pirate hat to work?
number three: why have i never been to the enchanted forest if it only costs nine dollars and promises a day full of fun and surprises?
so i kind of broke down last night as i was driving home from work. it had been a long day and i wasn't feeling very good (still not) and i just had myself a good cry. then i took a really hot, long shower when i got home and mar gave me a piece of apple pie and i felt a little better. and since this is somewhat free therapy, i shall try to put into words what is on my mind...
i am so nervous about going back to school. i can't figure out why i am so scared about being in school for one more year. i love fox. i have friends who are as close as family at fox. i actually am capable of being a good student and really excelling this year without any life-consuming ministries. maybe it's just because i don't really know where my place is. maybe it's because even though i say i don't care, i really am worried about what people will think. it's embarrassing to have walked and not actually graduated. to have said goodbye and then to say, "just kidding." i don't know what it is. but i keep thinking about freshman year and moving in and all sorts of things that i haven't thought about in such a very long time. it's a very weird place for me to be in... nervous about school.
then there's the other thing. the money thing. when i was first praying about what to do this next year, god had promised that everything would be fine and i knew that this indeed was the place i needed to be for this next year. sure i thought about the fact that i would be taking out a loan, but i had such faith that everything would be fine. that's how i've always felt about finances... taking big steps and even risks because i knew god would take care of it. i knew that god wouldn't ask me to do something without providing for me. but now it's like i am losing my faith when it comes to money. i hate to say it, but it wasn't until after i talked to my parents about it that i started being obsessed with the money part of next year. i can't even put into words how grateful i am that they payed for school. i even understand how they feel because they have attained great financial stability and they are really enjoying their lives right now. and it's good! god is blessing them like crazy. but now all i can think about is money. am i being realistic or am i being a big doubter? it's driving me nuts crazy.
then there is that last thing. i talked to my brother on the phone last night and he gave me some great news! he is going to be working as the leader of the junior high and high school guys at a church in eugene. super excited for him! but WHAT?!? i have gone to school for this very thing for the last four years. my cousin has been a youth pastor in grants pass for awhile now. what the heck is going on? i am so happy for them, but why the heck am i going to school in the first place? i mean, i didn't graduate because i couldn't find a youth group to intern at (well, that and the lack of enough credits). i love my church so very much and i feel so at home there and so like i am supposed to be there. but should i switch churches just to get a youth group. what the heck is going on?
that's about it. if anyone has anything to say, i would appreciate hearing it. if not... at least i feel a little bit better about everything that is going on.
deep breaths
i've recently decided that my favorite television character of all time is kirk on gilmore girls.
just thought you all should know.
this has been a very strange week indeed. as much as i loved everyone being together last week and six people sleeping in our apartment, it's been very pleasant to get back to my time of solitude in the mornings. good roommate time also. and let me tell you that living with mel and mar is going to be so good for my study habits next year.
so here are my thoughts from this week:
last sunday i took miki-ann to the airport (mmm, sad) and then had an hour before i had to be at church to hang out with the kiddos. so i went to laurelhurst park and took a walk. as i was walking along, i thought to myself... this is what i wish my life was like all the time.
i keep falling more and more in love with portland and i think that i could spend a long time here. and yet at the same time, i cannot wait to get out of this country. yesterday at work i talked with so many people with beautiful accents and just yearned to be elsewhere. perhaps the greater my desire grows to be somewhere else, the greater my passion grows and the more god is equipping me for my time abroad.
i need to get a pet or a plant or something. i've been making a lot of bread lately, but i think it has more to do with having nothing else to do at the apartment. i went to nicoglebogle's last night and spent some time with their plant, which i have affectionately named Fanny. it was delightful.
a couple of days ago i was at the grocery store and decided to splurge and spend a couple dollars on flowers. i realized that i was feeling really down because there hadn't been any cut flowers in the apartment since we first moved in. i need a garden. a garden and a pet. yes, that is what i need. maybe i will just make another loaf of bread and freeze it. perhaps that is a better idea.
i am going to a wedding tonight that i have been looking forward to so much! i get to bring a blanket, a stupid human trick, and something for the potluck (i made whole wheat banana nut bread). plus i get to hang out with part of my may serve family and i seriously can't wait!
and here is my movie recommendation of the week:
failure to launch is not that funny... really a letdown... and it had weird animal moments.
